unhappy with myself

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Hi Jackie
I'm a 40 yr old woman, 5'3", 120 lbs, heavier than i've ever been except at the peak of my pregnancies, I know I need  to exercise and to cut back on alcohol. Thing is, everyone keeps telling me that I look better (healthier) than I've ever looked. I am very self-conscious of my weight and my appearance. I want to make changes now, but not sure which diet i need to follow. My daily "diet" is as follows: Breakfast - coffee only. Lunch - bowl of soup or can of tuna and a half-dozen crackers, water or diet soda. Dinner - small serving of meat, two veggies, water or diet soda. (I usually have two-three drinks of alcohol, beer or wine, in the evening.) I splurge once a week on an order of fries or chips and salsa. I have a weakness for salty snacks. Do you think water pills would be a help to me? I would like to drop a few pounds, and shape up, just to feel better about myself.
What would you recommend?
Kelly

Answer
Hi Kelly

We are much harder on ourselves than we need to be.  I know that I have been through all of the emotions that you are now going through.  

Water pills will only give you a temporary fluid loss but I would recommend drinking Dandelion Tea daily or taking the capsules.  This is a very natural weight of eliminating extra fluids from the body.  You will not have the dire side effects that the diuretic pills cause.

Here are some things that helped me to lose weight - slowly.

I have lost over 80 pounds and my doctor told me the same thing a few years back. I have never liked to exercise but I did find it was necessary for me to lose weight. Lots of people hate to exercise. To achieve good health, exercise is an essential part of a comprehensive lifestyle program.

To exercise enough, though, you don't need to run a marathon, jump up and down in an aerobics class or lift barbells and grunt. Just get up and start moving.

Moderate exercise seems to be enough to make you healthy ?only 30 minutes of walking or similar activities once a day or an hour of walking three times a week."

If you enjoy exercising and want to do more, good for you. You'll get fit as well as healthy. You can split the exercises into two 15 minutes sessions each day.

Here are some other tips that helped me lose the weight and keep it off.


With some changes in your eating habits and exercising habits you may be surprised at the amount of weight that you can lose in a months time period. You can adverage losing about 2 pounds each week safely so it won't take long to lose the weight.

You can make some adjustments in the foods you are eating but don't try to diet. Just make different food choices.

Don't skip meals. Eat three meals a day and even allow yourself to have snacks. Just choose your foods wisely. Eat plenty of fruits and veggies. Don't try to eliminate all fat. Your body needs some fat, or it will start to make more.

Be sure you get enough calcium by drinking skim milk or calcium-fortified orange juice. Drink at least 32 ounces of water each day. This helps to decrease your appetite and is good for your skin and hair.

Also, be careful not to lose weight too quickly. Don't lose more than one pound per week, and don't be discouraged if you don't see results quickly.

1. Stretch your meals to, at least, 20 minutes or longer. Your stomach, mouth and brain are all connected and it takes 20 minutes of chewing before your stomach signals your brain that you are full. To successfully lose weight, you need to eat slowly for 20 minutes or longer.

2. Drinking 8 glasses of water a day is important to your health, your normal diet and to help lose weight. Water is necessary for the metabolism of your stored fat.

3. Make good food choices such as baked chicken, turkey, fish, tuna fish, lean ham, steak, lean beef or hamburger, veggies prepared without butter, brown rice, white rice, fruits--fresh or canned without extra sugar, low calorie jello, fat free yogurts, salads with low calorie and low fat dressings, air-popped popcorn, fat free pretzels, fruit smoothies made with yogurt, pasta in 2 oz servings.

4. Use snack foods wisely. Here are some suggestions for low calorie snacks. Fat free pretzels, fat free yogurt, air popped popcorn, low calorie jello with fat free cool whip, fruit smoothies made with fresh fruit and frozen yogurt, frozen grapes, sugar free popsicles.

5. When you go fat free or low fat, you also cut out much of the taste of the foods you eat. Add the flavor back with herbs and spices.

6. Increase your metabolism by including some of the fat burning foods and breaking your meals into 4 or 5 smaller meals during the day. Include some Catabolic or Negative calorie foods. I have listings of these foods if they would help you out.

7. Negative emotions will also interfere with your weight loss program. It's difficult to stay motivated to lose weight when you feel bad.

8. To lose weight faster, reduce your intake of caffeine. Caffeine leads to an increase of insulin in your body that retards the burning of your stored fat.This is a simple chemical reaction in your body that you can change. Reduce your caffeine intake by 50% and see what happens. Here is a rough guide to use when looking at the amount of caffeine you currently take in: Brewed coffee (6 oz. cup) - 100mg; Instant coffee (6 oz.) - 70mg; Tea (6 oz.) - 50mg; Soft drinks (12oz.) - (Coke, Dr. Pepper, Mountain Dew) - 50mg; Dark chocolate (1 oz.) - 20mg and Milk chocolate (1 oz.) - 6mg.

9. Incease your intake of fiber rich foods. They will help fill you up faster and will help all the food you eat pass through your digestive system more easily.

10. Exercise is probably the most important key to increasing your metabolism and burning off excess fat.

11. To lose weight quickly, never skip a meal. Your first meal after waking starts your metabolism. Your metabolism then speeds up for about eight hours and then starts slowing down until you go to sleep when it goes to low until you wake and eat and start the cycle again. Skip breakfast and your metabolism doesn't get started until lunch time. You've just missed three or four hours of fat burning time. When you skip meals during the day, your metabolism also slows down.

12. There are certain things that should be avoided when trying to lose weight such as--all fried foods--have them baked, broiled, grilled or pan fried using a non fat spray. Avoid rich gravies, sauces,rich desserts, sodas because of the sodium content.

13. Try including some fiber in the diet as it is very healthy for you and also expands in your stomach and gives you a full feeling.


Take Care
Jackie  

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