Plan And Dream a New Body Shape

Young children are full of dreams of what they will do, be, see
when they grow up. As adults most of us have given up the habit
of having big dreams. Or if we do, never following through with
them. Why do so many people let their dreams die unlived?

One reason is the negative cynical attitudes of other people.
These people are not enemies they are friends, even family
members. If our friends are negative towards our dreams or
aspirations –our friends can kill our dreams.

A person gets excited about the possibility of losing weight,
getting in shape or another new idea. They see the opportunity
to make a healthy life change, do more meaningful work, rise to
a personal challenge, change their lifestyle. They get excited
about this stimulating new prospect. But then they tell their
neighbour about it over the back fence one evening. The
neighbour gets a smirk, a laugh that says, “You can’t do that”,
a foot long list of all the problems and obstacles and fifty
reasons why they will never make it and are better off to stay
where they are.

The person’s enthusiasm disintegrates. They lose all their
excitement and self-confidence and begin to think of all the
reasons why they can’t succeed this time, when they have failed
before, instead of the reasons they can succeed in their new
healthy life plan. They have let the negative attitude of
someone else become more powerful than their belief in their
dream of a thinner, fitter person, whose health is greatly
improved. Friends can do more damage than a dozen enemies.
Remember, the easiest thing to find on earth is someone to tell
you all the things you cannot be. Don’t listen to them. Often
they have the best intentions. They don’t want you to be hurt or
disappointed. Sometimes they have a vested interest in you
remaining overweight and perhaps less attractive. Often those
that try to steal your dreams are really thinking of themselves.
If you have a dream of a new you give it a chance to happen.
Don’t let your sister-in-law, the plumber or the person in the
next office, rob you of that faith in yourself and your new body
shape. It is that belief in your dream that makes it into a
reality. Don’t let the person who lives on the couch and watches
TV every night tell you how futile life is.

Don’t take on other people’s negative attitudes. Surround
yourself with positive people. Read inspiring authors. A few
suggestions are Susan Jeffers, Paul Hanna, Anthony Robbins and
Jim Rohn. Spend at least half an hour a day nourishing your
dream. Believe in yourself and you will make your dreams a
reality.

If you have that flame of a dream deep down inside you
somewhere, do something about it. And don’t let anyone else blow
it out. Believe you can, and you will find you can. TRY! You
will be surprised at how many good things can happen to you.
Cheryl Haining is a skin care, body shape and nutrition coach.
She has her own successful business. Her mission statement is to
ensure everyone reaches his or her optimum body shape, size and
condition. Contact Cheryl at www.uloseweight.net or email her at
[email protected] To learn how to create an income stream
from home visit www.keybusinesstips.info

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