THE NEED FOR COMMITMENT

I had an interesting scenario this afternoon with a potential client – someone who had enquired a few days ago about how I could help her lose weight.
I had told her that with the processes I use, NLP, Hypnosis, Theta and EFT we could remove the blocks fairly easily and instead of going on some diet and then in a couple of weeks putting the weight back on again, this would stay off and continue to come off.
You see, I went on further, that it’s all down to our limiting beliefs – stuff we learned as children and which we’re still carrying round with us.
Once we get rid of those beliefs and change them for powerful empowering ones, we can be, do, have whatever it is we want.
And certainly her weight would come off because her perception of herself would change over time and she would not only approve of who she was but she would have a confidence that she hadn’t currently got and would feel no need to ‘eat’ to make herself better.
It’s the no diet weight loss programme which is the only diet you ever need – one from negative thoughts.
I had said that instead of weeks and weeks of dieting, this would be a relatively short process the results of which could benefit her a lifetime
So we agreed she would think about it and we spoke again today.
I told her that having thought about her particular situation the programme would only be 6 weeks (an initial consultation and first process; second process and then 4 follow up sessions) and I told her the cost. (Not I have to say that this was expensive – in fact far from it ; we discussed other methods and she agreed that they were far more costly than the excellent deal I was offering. She didn’t ask me if she could pay session by session but then came up with various reasons about why she couldn’t do it ‘at this particular time’;” it was too soon after Christmas”, it was the “wrong time of year” she has children, her husband’s work isn’t full time’. I think there were more but I don’t remember them all.
These were just ‘excuses’ of course. It was really nothing to do with the money. After all if we want to do something badly enough we will do it. No what it was was lack of commitment – yes she wanted to lose weight but it wasn’t that big a deal for her.
And it made me realise that’s why so many people go along in life accepting what’s handed out them, why they settle for 2nd (or 3rd, 4th or even 5th) best. It’s not that important. They don’t have the drive, ambition, burning desire to have, be or do something better.
I can’t imagine being like that.
These people weigh the ‘pain’ against the “pleasure” and think the pain’s not that bad. So they’ll always remain stuck.
I’d rather fight to get to the next level even when sometimes life gets very uncomfortable because I figure that we only live once and only regret the things in life we don’t do.
There was no point me ‘arguing’ with her, or trying to ‘persuade’ her – what would have been the point?
There are too many people out there who genuinely want to be helped to waste my time and energy attempting to convert someone who hasn’t got the commitment.

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